I never understood, “This will hurt me more than it will hurt you.”
Does everything in life become reduced to stupid competition? Tit for tat? Two people are in pain together, and niether pain is greater than the other because you’re both responsible for hurting each other.
I always liked, “I’m sorry this hurts you. It hurts me too.”
Or even, “I’m sorry you hurt. I hurt too.”
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