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Sara I’m going to be really honest with you.
I think he still wants you. You don’t strike me as the type to “entertain” him during his visit, but if he continues coming back to you and saying that he’s always loved you, that stuff just doesn’t go away, and he’ll do it again.
Just watch your step. I wouldn’t be surprised if he tries to use the romantic bit to try and get you in bed. A guy who won’t stick to his guns only wants one thing. That may sound harsh, but it’s the truth. He tells you he’s always wanted you and then takes off? But yet every time you talk he tells you he wants you. If I were there, babe, I’d fucking punch him in the face.
The song you chose should tell you flat out what your instincts are telling you. You did a victory dance to it. Take the advice you’re giving yourself, you’ve heard it all before, there’s nothing new he’s going to tell you.
If he wants to have a nice lunch with you fine, but I’m willing to bet you a thousand dollars he still feels for you and he’ll be hoping for some sort of sign.
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Ian- I am definitely not the type to “entertain” him while he’s visiting. Not if I was single and not if I am with someone. I’m glad you don’t think that of me, anyway.
I’ve found myself thinking before that his whole romantic gush of emotions was just a ploy, but I couldn’t tell if that was just because I was angry or not.
Thank you for taking the time to write out a response. I really, really appreciate it.
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Sara,
The important bit is that you say you wouldn’t feel comfortable going out on this lunch with him if he didn’t have a girlfriend? Why? Because he didn’t respect the fact that you were in a relationship before when he told you what he wanted.
Well, I ask you what makes you think he’ll respect his own?
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Trust all us men to have you on our RSS feeds. As someone who spent years watching you from afar I must tell you that I agree with all above statements. You are a unique girl: independent, sexy, and intelligent. It’s unbelievably alluring.
Chances are that both Ian and Nathan are right. 1- he’s still hoping (let’s face it guys do) and 2- if he didn’t respect your situation before he probably won’t now.
I’m sorry that all you seem to be getting is negative warnings from your male reader base, but we’re protective of you and we want only the best.
I was around when he hurt you before and I just want you to know he doesn’t deserve your forgiveness. But you’re going to give it to him anyway.
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I forgot to include what a delightful surprise your victory dance was. I didn’t know you listened to Madonna.
You thought I was going to say something else didn’t you?
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I don’t think he would be expecting anything per say. But at the same time, since it didn’t completely have closure there is probably still that attraction still there. The bottom line is, like said above, how much respect he has for his current girlfriend… I should hope he has a strong enough personality to bring some closure if there is tension left… But in all honesty, while I remember Luke, I never got to know him.
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Ink, I’m really glad you replied. I was thinking about the same thing. Since we didn’t have closure maybe that’s all he’s really looking for, you know?
Maybe he’s moved on and he just needs to close that chapter of his life, say what he needs to say, and we’ll move from there.
=)
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i came here to write exactly what was said above, so i guess i wont repeat all that. instead, i have to tell you that youre really quite adorable. and i definitely giggled at “thanks for all the fish!” haha.
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You are the QUEEN of pulling random stunts at the end of your videos. It’s like you’re “rewarding” the people who watch. You crack me up.
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“…and she’s dancing!” ahaha, what a crazy-nice surprise!!
i think there is no harm in meeting him; you know there can’t be anything, and you’ve made it clear to him that there can’t be anything. if things get ‘too much’ you can always just walk away i guess….
love your accent! =D
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Haha, thank you. =)
And yeah, I will meet with him, but I know what to expect, at least.
I forget I have an accent!!!
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Alo!
I think the problem is that all men are different, just like all people- you know this… and also not only different from each other but often different over time. There’s no way of knowing in honesty what he’ll be like til you get there. But you can get a head start by just asking him. “Are you going to try and … ?”. If you set out the boundaries before you even get there, and tell him that spending time with an old friend is what you want - it’ll then be up to him if it still goes ahead or not.
Any help?
from jacob x x x
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A) I love it when you do video blogs. You’re too cute. I can’t wait to get home now…
and B) If he *is* here out of hope for whatever, the only one who should end up hurt is him. I mean, just go with the complete intention that you’re just going to catch up with an old friend and don’t let him turn it into anything else.
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I can’t wait either!!!!
And I think you’re absolutely right. I am honestly over it, but I don’t want him just throwing himself in front of a train when it can be avoided. But if he’s going to he’s going to, I guess. We’ll just have to see.
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lol, thanks for that.
I can go with you if you want…though that might hinder the getting stuff out there.
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Yeah, you’re welcome!!
I don’t know, I’ll bring it up, but I don’t know what he’ll say. We’ll see. Though if he does just want it to be the two of us I think that alone would speak clearly about his expectations and intentions.
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I was trying to pay attention to the topic but your eyes kept freaking me out. Usually they’re ninjas about being two different colors but in this video they’re like, “HELLO WORLD”
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HAHA, I know. I noticed that too. I was like… dude, do they really look like that? And I had to go look in the mirror just to double check.
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I suppose I am really behind on reading people’s journals…
First off, Sara, your eyes are SO.DAMN.STRIKING.
Secondly:
I agree with most of the guys here…personally I don’t hang out with other guys all that much if there isn’t another female there, out of respect for Ink, you know? I would just say to use your head. I would be wary of him; have a friendly conversation and tie up lose ends.
Take Care.
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Bake me something!
“And he was a musician. That’s the fucking end of the world.”
LOL.
I learned a lot about you watching this.
Sometimes I forget you come here. I think we both know why.
>=D